I have many people undertake my Unlock Your Love Blocks program multiple times over the last few years. It is not because they are damaged or somehow flawed. Actually, they are quite the opposite. They are, what I believe, to be what a true badass warrior is! These are the sisters that are quietly, but powerfully going about minding their own business and getting on with their own excavation work inside their Soul. They want relationships with themselves, their lovers, their friends, family and the earth that are of the highest and deepest connection, and they are willing to take responsibility to manifest what they want in their life, by looking within!
Evolution of the Soul is a slow and gradual process. Yes, there are moments where there are massive aha’s and shifts, but that is because of a lot of other personal and spiritual work that was done leading up to that. I often say to my students that it can be difficult to recognise at time the scope of the changes that are taking place within you. Especially when you are dedicated to your own personal work, and shit just seems to keep coming in life. We may still hold on to beliefs that external rewards such as wealth and abundance, a certain weight or other external successes are the only measure of our success. But they are not.
It is your response to life. It is your shift perception. It is your sense of being. I remember a quote from Jim Rohn that has always stuck with me :
“Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom.”
This really helped me to understand more deeply it is not about what happens outside of me. So much of that I can not control! But I can be more; I can be better; I can be less of a victim; I can be resourceful and creative in how I approach challenges. It really shifted me and empowered me.
Yes we can work on eliminating things and people in our lives that are no longer good for us or serve our highest path, however, life can and still will throw curve balls at you. The truth is that as you begin to grow and learn and release old wounds, and shift perspectives, things that may have bothered you in the past, don’t seem to bother you anymore. Or moments in the past that may have triggered you into anger, you seem to just deal with quite calmly now. You may not recognise these things straight away. These subtle shifts, that start to happen more and more and more, until one day you realise you have changed. You are not the same person anymore.
There is this time of transition when you start on your path : this place where you recognise you want to change or need to change. You make decision about your life, and what you do with yourself and the people in your life, and you begin to let go. Leave jobs, friends, relationships etc, and in that in-between you don’t really know who you are anymore. You don’t really know where you are going and the “new” hasn’t quite manifested in your life yet. But then things start to shift and your life begins to change one step at a time over time. You may recognise some things over time, but one day. That one fine day you look back and you see, “I’ve made it to the otherside”. This is one sure fine day worth celebrating!
Until the next transition!